ON BECOMING SELF-ACTUALIZED

How To Be Their Best CHAMPION... at the HIGHEST HUMAN levels.

Stop believing their words and the reason they believe in their STORY. Do your due diligence, ask the raw and vulnerable questions, and CARE about their TRUEST EXPRESSION, POTENTIAL, not (just) surface WORDS or needs.

You might need to do a 180 on that belief. 

Let me explain...

I kept meeting the same objections over and over again when talking to a close friend about future plans... possible vacations in Greece together.

It frustrated the life out of me since I saw it (... wait for it) as a "NO, I don't like, approve, nor care about your needs/wants. I have no intention to go along or make any moves on my end."

If I was misreading the situation, signals, and words...then I was totally off. And I rarely am. But something in me told me to keep up the conversation...and ask different questions, which were about THEIR needs and wants.

It revealed that it was nothing about me or my desires...but she felt heartbroken over the last fiasco vacation to Turkey with her then-boyfriend. That after having a really good time together came a messy and hurtful breakup.

Once we talked it over and she felt what needed to be felt...the pain subsided and she became open and emotionally available to see the amazing possibility that this trip could be. For both of us.

An objection is really nothing more than a sign that the person is considering the situation but doesn't trust themselves fully to say YES from an empowered place.

Take it as an invitation, as asking for help, guidance, support, or coaching to the other side of the person's desires.

In transformational work? People want what you have to offer. They also need help in bridging the gap between their needs and something of a higher nature. They want relief from where they are to where they want to be. They want to trust you that you have so much more to bring to the table than "a sales pitch"...even when your offer is already SOLID GOLD, they love you and show up in your lives regularly.

Help them realize and believe that what they deeply desire can be possible for them and you will never meet an objection, only plenty of opportunities to champion your person.

They need a home and money. But in fulfillment, they desire and want a transformation that leads to them being further down the road of being self-actualized.

Always know about your person (private or business):

1. Is this desire something they are aware of ... and their deeper meaning behind the surface need?

2. Is life together, or... working together... going to be instrumental in their reach for self-actualization?

3. Will your suggestions/help/coaching bring them closer to their purpose, divine plan, closer to themselves... or further away?

Humans are fickle in so many ways.

The only thing that holds us in line with each other is our desires... which we are willing to live and die for... to become the BEST HUMANS we can be and to live out our highest potential.

Supporting THAT in your person takes them 10,000 miles deep in the world of intangible gifts speaking their own language. Taking a person on their own HERO journey to that land of possibilities takes immense courage and LOVE.

And lovers... and riches... are an important part of that path of becoming self-actualized.

✨ Helena